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Many people in India feel nervous and worried about getting married or entering serious relationships. This is understandable, especially with divorce rates rising significantly in the last twenty years. There are a few reasons for this trend. More and more women are becoming educated and financially independent, which means they no longer feel trapped in unhappy situations. Men are also recognizing that staying in a toxic relationship isn't worth it and are open to trying again with new partners. For younger generations like Gen X, Xennials, and Millennials, divorce isn't seen as a shameful thing anymore.

Some men and women actually enjoy being single and are focused on other life goals rather than the traditional expectations of marriage and having children. They want to pursue their dreams, travel, contribute to society, and lead fulfilling lives.

However, many individuals view marriage and long-term relationships as a potential threat to their happiness. This might be because we often see examples of unhealthy relationships filled with silence, resentment, and sometimes even violence. It’s not easy to navigate life with another person, especially when there are expectations involved.

Movies and books can influence how we think our partners should behave, leading us to have unrealistic ideas about love and relationships. Sometimes we might compare our current partner to characters from stories or even to people we've been with in the past. This sets us up for disappointment, as these expectations aren’t fair or realistic.

So, how can we change this pattern? It’s essential to understand what we expect from our partners and communicate those expectations openly and honestly. It’s also important to focus on actions and behaviors rather than making conclusions based on assumptions. If you're interested in learning more about how to manage relationship expectations, consider booking a couple's counseling session to explore these topics further.